A Delicious Stewp!

Yep, a stewp! I can't call it a soup, and it isn't really a stew either so we are going to meet in the middle.

It's currently freezing in Colorado, like literally freezing. This Cajun girl was not made for this. At least once a year, I call my husband and tell him I love him and will probably die driving home. There is normal one inch of snow at that point so he may call me a little dramatic. Normally, I would say cold weather means gumbo weather, but I haven't figured out a gerd friendly gumbo yet.  So, I searched for a delicious soup to make. I found some great one, but I couldn't find one that was completely gerd friendly and looked delicious. When in doubt, create your own! I'm going to share my new favorite stewp! Feel free to add and subtract to make it your own.

Chicken, Lentil, Veggie Stewp

-Start out by spray the bottom of the pot with non stick cooking spray. I do this instead of putting olive oil at the bottom of the pot.
-Cut 4-5 carrots and add to the pot. Cook on medium for about five minutes.
-Add about 2lbs of potatoes, chopped in 1/2-3/4 inch squares.
-Add 1 cup of brown or green lentils and 6 cups of broth (I used chicken because the lentils absorb the flavor for a nice taste).
*I know some of you just decided not to try this recipe because you saw the word lentils. I use to be scared of them and automatically thought they were gross. Repeat after me....lentils are amazing! They absorb the flavor of the broth and have so much healthy amazingness in them. *
- Cover and bring everything to a boil. Once it is boiling, lower the heat to medium and cook for about 30 minutes, stirring occasionally.
- After 30 minutes, I added a can of no salt added peas and a can of no salt added green beans. You can use frozen too. I just didn't have any on hand. I use the no salt added so that I control my salt. I also smashed a few of my potatoes to thicken up the soup. This is when it became a stewp.
-Add about 1lb of cooked chicken breast cut up into small pieces. Stir everything together and let it marry for about ten minutes. (Marry means to let it cook for all the flavors to come together.)

And that's it! You can season to taste. I added more water  because it became too thick for my liking. I got 13 cups of stewp from this recipe. Each cup was 171 calories, .5 grams of fat, 14 grams of protein, and over 7 grams of fiber! I added a piece of toast, and it was the perfect "sit in your seat and watch the cold snow from your warm chair" meal.

What about dessert you ask?...I've got you covered! Check this recipe out for almost no fat banana bread that I found on All recipes. It's so delicious! I made these into 12 muffins and I added 10tbs of Benefiber to the recipe because I like to have fiber in my food so I'm not hangry 10 minutes later. Almost No Fat Banana Bread

And...a Cajun always has coffee with dessert. I can't drink coffee anymore but have fallen in love with Teeccino! It gives me my coffee fix without the reflux punishment. If you are trying to cut the acidity in your diet, I highly recommend it. You can find it on Amazon or Iherb.com (My reward code is

BES9218 if you happen to use them) or in stores like Whole Foods, Sprouts, and Natures Grocers. My current favorite is French Roast because the smell gives me that happy coffee feeling and takes me back to Cafe du Monde in the French Quarter.

                                     My Stewp

Sample Weekly Meal Plan

I had several people ask me yesterday what I eat in a typical week. I had to get up early this morning (the husband had to be at work for 5) so I decided to be productive during my child free time ( My son "slept in" until 5:30) and create a sample meal plan.

*Please note that I am not a dietician and do not claim to be. I have not gone to school for nutrition, and I am sure that I love carbs way more than most people would say is healthy. This is just a sample of what I eat and track on MyFitnessPal. I use MyFitnessPal to make sure that I get enough vitamins and nutrition in each day. I'm on this healthy journey just like so many people, and I'm learning as I go. I hope this helps guide others.

My Sample Weekly Meal Plan

Coffee! Coffee! Coffee!

I grew up a fan of Gilmore Girls, okay obsessed with Gilmore Girls and convinced I was going to marry my own Luke one day (and I have ☺️). One of the biggest things I got from Gilmore Girls ..my coffee obsession! I started small...one cup a day. I can do just one cup. Then my students started playing the game of guessing how many cups I had that day based on how much I moved in class. At one point, I worked four jobs (hello single teacher status) and basically lived on coffee. I would tell everyone I only drank one cup and would leave out the fact that my large cup fit an entire pot of coffee. 

In 2018 I was diagnosed with migraines. No big deal. Plenty of people say caffeine helps migraines.. except caffeine didn't help me because it made it to where I couldn't relax and tension headaches led to migraines.

Enter the world of decaf. I know, it's like a curse word to coffee drinkers around the world. After a while, I got use to it though...then came GERD. Good ole GERD stripped me of my decaf. Coffee is seriously acidic y'all.

 I became the girl staring at others drinking their coffee. Okay, confession time...I actually sniffed my friend's coffee several times just to get the smell of it. I needed my mental fix. I'm from South Louisiana where everyone goes to each other's houses to drink coffee and kids drink "coffee milk" with their parents and grandparents. How could I be stripped of something that was a part of me?!

It's been nine months since I told coffee goodbye. A few days ago, I received a fb message that has changed everything so I want to share it with everyone. Teeccino! No, that's not a foreign language or a new slang word that you don't know. (Although it might be because I'm really bad at knowing new slang and would have no clue). Teeccino is made from carob and other ingredients instead of coffee beans. It comes in different flavors such as French Roast and Hazelnut, and you can find it online or in some grocery stores (Natural Grocers, Sprouts). It has no caffeine and isn't acidic. Score! I found some basic creamer, and I now have my coffee fix again. Is it the same as coffee? Nope. Does it fill that void that has been missing for nine months? Sure does. I had some this afternoon with some healthy cookies that I baked and felt like me again.

I know that coffee doesn't define the woman, but I hope I make Lorelai proud. 😉

It's Been A While

So, it's been a while since my last blog post. School started. For any elementary teachers reading (or their significant others who watch the zombies return home every day at the beginning ) , that's enough of an explanation. My son also started preschool this year, and that pretty much rocked my world. I'm the mom of a pre-ker! I'm still not sure how this is my life.

As it turns out, GERD doesn't just go away so I've been keeping up with my gerd friendly food and trying new ones. I've updated the Google Doc with new foods that I've tried successfully. One of my favorites has been the super easy pumpkin muffins that my four year old gobbles up. The recipe is on my fb page. I'm currently 95 lbs down, and it has all come from just following GERD friendly foods and some fun exercise.

95 lbs down, I am still in disbelief. I look at the number on the scale, but my mind is still trying to wrap around it.

My mind has actually been the toughest part of this whole process. My assistant principal recorded me teaching this past week and had me watch it to reflect. I'll be honest and say that it was one of the toughest things I've had to do in a while. I cried while watching it. I couldn't see my teaching. I could only see my stomach that still needs a lot of work. Instead of my learning target, I saw that fat roll that will never go away (I'm blaming Little Debbie for that one. She is the friend who never leaves your side. 🤣) I saw myself 95 lbs ago. My husband then gave me a pep talk...okay it was more of a come to Jesus talk...about how I need to see myself. As sweet as he is every time he tells me I'm beautiful (for the record, he has always said that to me at any weight), it's not enough. It will never be enough for me to rely on the opinion of others. It's time to get this mind in shape.

So, that's where I am. On the exciting news front, I am in the middle of a project to celebrate losing 100 lbs. My goal is to get people, myself included, to donate at least 100lbs total to local food banks, local food pantries, or homeless feeding programs. So far, I've had people in 2 states participate, and I am so pumped up. There was a time in my life when food was not always something I could just go and buy. I stressed about how I was going to buy food for the week. I remember my dad telling me to go look at something he bought, and there was a $20 bill for me next to a can of green beans. I remember a friend inviting me out to eat. I was stressed and knew that I could only spend $5, and she surprised me by paying for my meal. I'm so excited to be at a point in my life where I can pay it forward for others, and this project has re-energized this tired teacher! If you would like to participate and aren't local, give to a local place. I am asking that you send me the weight of the food and a pic because I am so excited to make a collage of all the food in the end to remember this project and milestone.

If you are at a point in your life where you can't help with my current project, no problem! I encourage everyone to pay kindness forward somehow today. Open a door for someone, smile at someone (even if they have their grumpy pants on), just be kind.

If you have any suggestions for future blog posts, comment here, comment on my fb page, send me a fb message, a pigeon with a note...something. What would you like to see more of? meal ideas? dessert ideas? exercises with gerd (because some are very bad for people with gerd)? my husband's justification for pizza as healthy because it has vegetables? Just let me know.

The picture is my preschooler's self portrait....because he is pretty good at seeing just how awesome he is.

Cheater, Cheater IHOP Eater

Since being diagnosed with GERD, I've been extremely careful with what I eat. This has gotten me looks and comments about how I don't eat "normal food." I hear," One cookie won't kill you." and, my personal favorite that I have heard so many times,"If I had to eat like you I would want to die."  It honestly doesn't phase me because I know that I'm feeding my body what it needs. Others have told me that they have GERD and eat whatever they want and just pop a pill or deal with the pain. If that's your plan and it works for you, all the power to you. Every case is different, and the pain is unbearable and not worth it for me.

So, story time. 🎶 Just sit right back and you will hear a tale of a fateful trip🎶....sorry, childhood memories coming back with that one. I just wanted to tell a story of what happened to me today and why I'm so strict with my eating. We rarely go out to eat. My GERD control freak self can't do it because I can't see them preparing my meal. Most "healthy" meals at restaurants are ruined for me with how they are cooked. We once ate at Texas Roadhouse where the waiter confirmed that everything, including steamed veggies and baked potatoes, is cooked in butter. Luckily, he was able to request no butter with my steamed veggies, but the baked potato was a no go.

This morning we decided to eat as a family at IHOP. My son's eyes got twice as big as he saw his cupcake pancake, eggs, sausage, and bacon. My husband had chicken fried steak, pancakes, and eggs (of course I heard about how his stomach hurt after because it doesn't go with the food he normally eats anymore). I sat there and was perfectly content with two poached egg whites, a plain Thomas English Muffin toasted, and a glass of apple juice, all GERD diet approved. I lie, I totally wasn't fine with it. I eyed both of their meals and craved one bite of pancakes with yummy butter pecan syrup. Anyone who knows me well knows that I firmly believe that every day is worth sprinkle infused food (I had funfetti cake for my birthday every year before this.) so my son's cupcake pancake looked like the promise land. But, I have GERD and that's just how it is, so I ate my plain food and soaked in the fun of us all going eat out together.

....until about five minutes after we left the restaurant. I had been done eating for a while, and I was starting not to feel well. All of the signs of my GERD attacks from before were coming back to me. My back hurt from the acid, my chest felt tight, and I had to say excuse me a million times because we are trying to teach my son manners and mommy was burping often. I took Tums as soon as we got home and have some extra strength Zantac calling my name when I am done with this because, hours later, the pain is still there. I've been sucking on ginger candies all day to help as well.

I ate everything that I should have, but my doctor warned me that restaurants don't always cook food like they say they do, and often people are triggered accidentally after they thought they were eating the correct foods. Our best guess is that my English muffin was actually toasted where they cook all the other food, meaning it was cooked where they put oil and butter.

Eating the way I do is a lifelong thing. When people say they would want to die if they had to eat like me, I want to tell them that they would feel like they are dying if they had my GERD and didn't eat like I do. So, whether it is GERD or some other kind of medical condition that makes you eat a certain way (or if you just want to eat the way you want to because whose business is it to judge you for the food that you are putting in your mouth, your mouth...repeat that...your mouth, not theirs), you've got this! You are amazing! Forget anyone who doesn't understand. It's not their job to understand. It's their job to be them, and it is your job to be you.

                               My son's breakfast from this morning because, y'all, the sprinkles!

Meal Ideas, Hurray!

Okay, lame but straight forward title for today's blog post. I started back at school this week so I have been thinking about all of the quick breakfast, lunch, and supper ideas that I use to stay on track.Here are some of our family favorites.

Breakfast:

1. 2-3 servings of liquid egg whites on an English muffin (I love the cinnamon raisin ones) and 1/2 cup of fat free milk. I can't do regular milk because the fat triggers GERD.

2. 2-3 servings of egg whites with two pieces of toast (no butter). I put the eggs on the toast for flavor.

3. 2-3 servings of egg whites (seeing a trend here 😉) cooked and then placed in a high fiber, low fat tortilla (I use Ole' Xtreme Wellness tortillas because they have 11 grams of fiber and 1.5 grams of fat) with 2 tbs of fat free cheddar cheese. I then role up the tortilla into a burrito and cook it on the stove for about 3 minutes on each side to brown it. The whole process takes less than ten minutes, and I can walk away from the stove while the burrito is browning to get other things done.

4. 1 serving of Bran Flakes with 1/2 cup of fat free milk. Watch out for some bran cereals that come with fruit or granola because they can be loaded with sugar. I just use a plain bran flakes cereal and add in about 8 raisins to it if I want to make my own raisin bran cereal.

5. Breakfast burritos part 2- I cook breakfast burritos for my husband that are different than mine but still healthy. For his, the inside has breakfast potatoes (read the back of the bags if you buy frozen instead of cutting the potatoes fresh. Potatoes have 0 grams of fat, some hashbrowns have 8 grams per serving). I cook the potatoes with onions and peppers. Then I cook some breakfast turkey sausage (If you have a Kroger affiliate around you, their Simple Truth breakfast sausage has only 4 grams of fat per serving, and you normally don't need a full serving per burrito). I do a mixture of eggs and egg whites (about 4 servings of liquid egg whites to 2 whole eggs). Then I mix everything in a big bowl and make burritos with the mixture and some fat free cheese. This process takes a little longer to make all of the burritos, but I normally make about ten at a time and can wrap them and freeze them for my husband to grab on the go in the morning. He likes adding a little salsa to them after heating them up.


Lunch/Supper (In Louisiana, it's all considered dinner 🤣)

1. burrito bowls!- These are one of my favorite family meals because everyone can put what they want in them. I cook chicken breast and ground turkey (with taco seasoning for the ground turkey), pinto beans, black beans, rice (you don't need much. We use 1 cup for all of us for a couple of meals), lettuce, fat free cheese, and pico de gallo (for the husband since I can't have tomatoes.  A typical burrito bowl for me include about 3 oz of chicken, 2 tbs of rice, 1/4 cup of pinto beans, 1/4 cup of black beans, lettuce, and 2 tbs of cheese. I normally make plenty, and we make the leftovers into burritos the next day.
Hint! I use canned beans to make it go quickly but hate the sodium. So, I buy no salt added beans so that I can control how much salt we put into them.

2. chicken breast (I always use the tenderloins because they come out more tender.) with a small baked potato. For flavor for the potato, I normally add 1 tbs of fat free sour cream and 2 tbs of fat free cheddar

3. fajitas- This is one for my husband because I can't have onions or peppers. I cook chicken breast tenderloins, onion slices, and pepper slices with fajita seasonings (If you buy a packet, try using half to lower the sodium). Then I heat up white corn tortillas to eat it on. White corn tortillas are much better for you than flour ones when it comes to fat (GERD friendly).
Since I can't have the fajitas, I just cook chicken tenderloins for me and eat them on one of my tortillas with some cheese

4. baked chicken breast with baked mini potatoes and carrots- this one is pretty basic but an old faithful for when I come home, still need to cook, and want to get a workout in. I use spray olive oil instead of coating the veggies in olive oil to take out almost all the fat from oil, and I use seasonings around the house like salt and basil. Then, I can get a workout in while everything is cooking in the oven. When cooking in the oven, I normally buy regular chicken breast instead of the tenderloins.

5. chicken noodle soup with a twist- I use 6 cups of chicken bone broth instead of regular chicken broth. The bone broth has collagen that can help your stomach and is recommended for GERD. I have found some at Costco that is much better with the sodium level also. Hint, Costco has it much cheaper than our local grocery stores. For the chicken, I only use chicken breast. I add carrots and celery (watch the amount of celery you eat if you have GERD because it can be a trigger). I really like to add zucchini noodles instead of regular noodles. It reduces the calories drastically, and I doing find that the zucchini has much flavor. It takes on the flavor of the broth and adds texture.

6. Fish tacos!- This is a family favorite for us. Ben loves orange roughy, and I love mahi mahi so we usually cook both. We normally just bake the fish and then heat some white corn tortillas in a skillet (heat, not fry). You can add some fat free cheese, lettuce, and pico (if you don't have GERD). My husband was so hesitant the first time I made this and was convinced that he would hate it. He absolutely loves it and frequently requests it now.

7. Turkey burgers- no, not the ones from the freezer section! I repeat! Not the ones from the freezer section! We use to eat those all of the time. Then I actually looked on the back and saw the fat and sodium content. We now make our own. I like to use 99% fat free ground turkey (GERD friendly because it is low in fat). I then add in a serving of liquid egg whites, a few tbs of fat free milk, and 1/4 cup panko bread crumbs. 1 lb normally gives us five big patties. We then eat them on a lower fat bun. The best I have found have had between 1.5 grams of fat to 2 grams of fat. This normally wouldn't be a big deal, except that they advise people with GERD to have meals with no more than 3 grams of fat to avoid it triggering the GERD. The great news is that my turkey burgers only have .8 grams of fat so I can have my burger, bun, and some fat free cheese on it and still stay under 3 grams of fat!

Now, onto the good stuff. I am a snacker. I will always be a snacker. I don't survive well being hangry between meals. (and my husband can confirm that hangry me is a completely different person than regular, well fed me)

Snacks

I stay very simple with my snacks. Here are some quick ideas.

1. Fruit- an apple is easy and portable, bananas are great for GERD too, pears are good too
             1 cup of cantaloupe (my current obsession because it is in season)

Other fruits aren't bad for most people, but they can be triggers if you have GERD. The key with fruit is portion control and watch your sugar. If I have a cup of cantaloupe, I'm not going to have a big apple also. Fruit is good for you in moderation, but you can go overboard and have way too much sugar. I buy seasonal fruit to save money. Right now I am obsessed with locally grown cantaloupe, my husband eats an apple a day, and my son begs for blueberries.

2. Nuts- My husband snacks on cashews. Almonds are the best for GERD so I snack on almonds. Portion control. A serving is good for your. An entire container that you absently ate while watching your favorite reality show or a sporting event is not good for you.

3. Make your own mix- Have fun with it but watch the portions. I love to mix 1/2 cup of bran flakes, 8 almonds (about 1/4 serving) and 1/2 serving of yogurt covered raisins and then snack on it. I get a healthy fat, fiber to keep me full, and sweet to satisfy my sugar craving.

4. Trick yourself ice cream cone- Yep, I named that one 🤣. One of the greatest casualties in my fight with GERD was the love of something I like to call...Blue Bell. She use to be a best friend. She comforted me on nights when I was mad, sad, glad...any of the "ad"s. The fat alone knocked her out of my life, and I began searching for something I could have when I craved ice cream. Enter fat free cool whip. When I have a major ice cream craving (or any random Sunday because I make sure that my in laws' freezer and pantry are stocked with it), I put some fat free cool whip in an ice cream cone. Once again, moderation. Don't eat an entire container of the stuff.

5. Random- for cookies, I like to eat a few reduced fat Nilla Wafers. Goldfish also makes cupcake flavored grahams. I only eat about ten of these when I eat them, but it is enough to make me feel like I've had a delicious dessert. Ricer rollers are also very good. They taste kind of like Honey Smack cereal (ah, childhood is calling) and have no fat. I normally stick to only one or two of these because they are empty calories like the Nilla Wafers and Goldfish grahams.

The biggest thing that helped me shift my thinking with eating was that food is designed to fuel my body so I need to make sure that I'm putting in the good stuff. You deserve the good stuff y'all 😉

In my next blog post, I plan on talking about how to eat healthy on a budget. I always hear that it's too expensive to eat healthy because junk food is cheaper. I hear you, but I also know that you can use sales and things in season to still eat healthy without breaking the bank. I also try to use the perspective that it is way cheaper to eat healthy now than to pay all of the doctor bills from obesity related illnesses (when I started, my bmi was morbidly obese, which can lead to so many illnesses. Now, it is considered overweight and on it's way to being healthy)

Personal update: I hit a major milestone this week. I now weigh the smallest that I have ever weighed as an adult and am about ninety pounds down from when I started. Even better was that I worked in my class this week and was much more flexible and energetic when having to get in some odd positions to hang decorations and move things.

These are my current favorite tortillas. I like like them crisped on the stove a little.

Sometimes I Get Emotional....Well, Emotional Eating That Is

Emotional eating, it's been there with me my entire life. This is one of the things I can confidently say I know that I am not alone in because I see people post about it in fitness groups on Facebook all the time. We do great, we are set with healthy choices, and then something goes wrong and that craving for homemade granola over low fat yogurt quickly spirals into an entire pint of Blue Bell's crazy cookie dough, not that I know from experience or anything but y'all crazy cookie dough could definitely be someone's kryptonite and bride's cake may have helped me usher in my 30's.

I have joked with my husband before about my non healthy relationship with Little Debbie growing up. I told him that Little Debbie was my best friend during those awkward teen years because she always stuck by my side...well, to my side. Some can eat one swiss cake roll and be done. I would eat one and then plot on how I could hide the fact that I ate another from my parents. It was an unhealthy relationship, but I didn't know how to get away from it. When I was sad, Little Debbie made me feel a little better. When I was discouraged, Blue Bell was there to save the day. When I was stressed, good ole Ruffles knew how to calm me down. I was ashamed that I emotionally ate, which led to even more emotional eating. Shame can keep us trapped far longer than we ever thought. It was a cycle for me.

Then, my twenties happened. I went through a divorce at only 23. Out of respect for the other person involved and because it isn't just my story to tell, I won't include any details other than I went through a divorce and it was the hardest time in my life at that point. I decided to try something new. Instead of emotional eating, it was emotional working out. Every time I would start feeling depressed, I would go run. I found this great track that almost no one went to so I could run and then just talk/ yell to God how much everything sucked (Sorry to everyone who corrected me about saying the word suck growing up. As you can see, it still stuck, but your voices reminding me to say stink are always still there every time I use it). I lost weight and got healthy. I felt amazing! I had finally beat the emotional eating right?

Nope. In 2012 I had a tragic accident. Okay...so I had an accident on a kid's inflatable water slide, more comedic than tragic. It left me needing two surgeries and being told I could no longer run. Cue the emotional eating again. The great thing about being stuck on a sofa after surgery...people feel bad and buy you all your favorite foods to pig out on. The bad thing about being stuck on a sofa after surgery, well, read the last part of the sentence before this one. I put on about 30 pounds in a few months.

I would love to say that now that I am down 80 lbs that I have fully conquered emotional eating, but I haven't. Last week, we got some hard news about a family member's health, and out came the jelly beans. Just yesterday, I had something discouraging happen and I broke out a serving of reduced fat Nilla Wafers....the Nilla Wafers people. My husband looked straight at me when our pastor then had a part of his sermon on how do we do when we are discouraged or things don't go our way. How do pastors always know about those emotional eaten Nilla Wafers? 🤣

This post isn't to say, "Hey, look at me! I've conquered this and you can too! This is how you do it in three easy steps!!' It's saying that you aren't alone if emotional eating has been a struggle for you. It's one I am daily working on. For me, putting on worship music and very loudly belting it out so that the entire county around me helps. One of my sisters loves to go for bike rides in nature when she is stressed. I mean, I now have a metal plate and five screws thanks to a water slide accident so I'm thinking I can't afford the medical bills that would result from me biking. I know that the key is to stop associating food with comfort and getting over stress and start actually dealing with the source of the emotions. So, that's where I'm at right now. I'm taking it each day knowing that, even though my emotional eating is now GERD friendly healthier options than before, it's still emotional eating and that's not too healthy. A Nilla wafer should just be a Nilla wafter, and a jelly bean should just be a jelly bean.

So, if you are in the same boat as me, let's try to both work on it this week. Find someone to encourage you, or, in my case, stare at you when the pastor is talking directly about you. 😳 When you get stressed out or discouraged, know that Little Debbie and Duncan Hines won't solve the problem and will possibly leave you with a stomach ache later. Let's get creative in how we can replace emotional eating with something healthy. Feel free to comment on this post or on my post on The Cajun Coloradan Facebook page if you are in this with me or if you have some great ideas for me.

                                                       The Starer...aka my amazing husband

Husband update!

So, I'm a week late on the one month update for my husband. My second blog post was about how he and his friend were going to do a 30 day challenge to eat the way I eat. There was a lot of laughing (me) and crying (him), but I am so proud of him for sticking it out.

We realized on..oh day 1 or so that we would have to change a few things up if he was going to stick to it and I was going to keep my sanity.  The words, "I'm going to die" were used and "I haven't eaten anything all day." Rest assured, he was eating. There are some foods that I don't eat because of the acidity that are still healthy. So, I've worked a few of those into his eating. I'm looking at you salsa 😉. I also can't have any meal over 3 grams of fat. I upped this to five grams of fat for my husband because he was struggling with snacks and meals that qualified under how I eat. I think the first week brought a lot of perspective for him to see just how much of a struggle it was for me when I started out.

Overall, he has done amazing. I'm so proud of the changes that he has made that are sticking. He has been trying to cut out soda for years, and this challenge has done it for him. I'm no longer stocking up on potato chips and cookies. Within just a few days, he noticed his joints weren't hurting like they usually do after work and his body was just feeling better overall. In his words, "I don't feel like death." How many times have I heard, "You get older and things just start hurting." Well, he changed what he was fueling his body with every day and things stopped hurting.

Challenges along the way. We have had a few interesting days. He has probably had about five days where he completely went off track. July 4th was one of them. I may have cried quite a bit that day. Holidays are a reminder to me that other people, like my husband, can eat stuff whenever they want and then go right back to healthy eating and be fine. If I do that, I will be in a lot of pain and on medicine. It just isn't worth it, but it's okay to say that it stinks sometimes (like 20 times in one day). And it stunk watching my husband load up on hot dogs, deviled eggs, and chips while I sat there with chicken breast and a baked potato. I mean, I wasn't dramatic about it or anything 😉, but I may have sung,"You've lost that loving feeling" to him in the car that day after he ate like he wanted to and I couldn't.

So, lets get to the good stuff. How is hubby doing now, a week after the challenge is over? He is sticking to it!!! This challenge gave him an insight into just how good his body feels when he is putting good food in it. Every time he has a "cheat meal" (I hate that term. It's still just a meal. No shame in it) he feels miserable after and declares that he doesn't know why he does it when he knows he won't feel well. He has decided that this is his new permanent way of living and he will just go off of it for one meal when he has days when be dealt wants something.

After one month, he is down 15lbs and feeling great! It feels great to cook one meal for the whole family now, and we are trying new healthy meals each week.

                                                Don't get jealous ladies, this one is all mine. 

Let Them Eat Cake!

Okay, I'm going to be completely honest. I was totally bummed yesterday. I'm used to eating my GERD friendly diet every other day, but holidays still get to me. Barbecue was out of the question, and there was no way I was making my traditional apple pie. So, I decided to do something to cheer myself up.

The challenge: Could I make one of my childhood favorites healthier and GERD friendly without losing the quality? I decided to take Mrs. Betty's Apple Coffeecake.

Y'all no one cooks better than a Southern church lady. It's a fact, not an opinion, so don't even try to debate me on it. I don't care that I live in Colorado now. I still want to be considered a Southern church lady when I cook. I took this challenge because I couldn't ruin Mrs. Betty's coffeecake.

The original recipe called for oil and eggs. That knocked me out of the running because each serving would be 14 grams of fat, and I can only have 3 grams of fat per meal. So, I replaced the eggs with servings of egg white substitute and the oil with applesauce. Because of the sweetness of applesauce, I cut the sugar in half from two cups to one cup. I was afraid of it being too sweet. My husband said this is a fear that I should never have. 🤣

Here were my ingredients:

1 cup of sugar
1 cup of applesauce
2 servings of liquid egg whites
3 cups of flour
1 tsp of baking soda
1 tsp of cinnamon
1/2 tsp of salt
2 tsp of vanilla
4 cups of diced apples

I first creamed the sugar and applesauce together. Then I added all of the other ingredients to the bowl. The recipe calls for four cups of apples. I used medium honeycrisp, and it took two and three quarters apples. I could have increased the fiber by using wheat flour, but I decided to try with white flour for the first time trying this. I poured everything into a greased pan (I used a 9 X 13) and baked it at 350 degrees. Mine took 35 minutes before I felt it was ready.

What were the results? Half of the pan is currently gone. It cured my Fourth of July I can't eat any delicious food funk! It actually got better as the day went on and tasted more moist.

Feedback from my husband and father in law was that it needed more sugar (my father in law said this as he ate his second piece 😉) My husband said a little cinnamon sugar on top would have worked instead of more sugar in the cake. My mother in law said it was sweet enough already. It was more dense than Mrs. Betty's so I would whip the egg whites before adding them to the mix next time to give it a lighter texture. I plan on trying this again for sure, I mean for scientific blog purposes only of course.

Now, for the nutrition. I put the recipe in My Fitness Pal so that I could get the nutrition. The big one for my GERD diet is fat. I love the original recipe, but 14 grams of fat would have had me in pain and possibly telling Ben what to tell the hospital workers if an ambulance has to come get me (I may be a bit dramatic sometimes). This new recipe has 0 grams of fat per serving instead. I wouldn't recommend eating the entire pan because of course it is still a dessert, but I would definitely make this to cure those I need some dessert blues. These facts are for 1 piece when I divided the pan into 16 pieces. You can see from the picture above that it was a good size piece.

Mission success!!! 🎆🎉

Help! I Hit A Roadblock!

So, you've decided to eat healthy. You've bought healthy food, made a plan, and are determined to really stick to it this time. Your motivation is high, and your bank account is now low (healthy food isn't exactly cheap). What could go wrong right?

Roadblocks. 🚧 They are always there no matter what your goal is. What you don't expect is that many times the attempted roadblocks on your healthy journey are the ones you care about the most. Family, friends, coworkers. What do you do when temptation is all around and others are encouraging you to just eat "a little" (let's be honest, it turns into a lot and you wind up feeling guilty, miserable, and, frankly, craving more)? Sometimes people do it innocently, like grandmas who love you so much and just want to make sure you are fed and full....every...minute...of...your....life. People who really love you and support you will still get it wrong sometimes, but most of the time they will make an effort to support you. There will always be others though. Not everyone or every situation will be supportive. Someone I know was recently at a work event where people repeatedly put soda and cookies in his face trying to get him to eat them even though they knew he was trying to eat healthy.

In the end, the responsibility falls on the person trying to be healthier. So, how do you do this?There will always be roadblocks, but let's talk about some detours that have helped my family.

1) Always have snacks with you!- If you have a healthier option on you, you are less likely to "need" the non healthy option. This seems pretty easy, but it requires planning. At any given time, you can ask me and I'll have a small apple in my purse. (Reminder to myself: put a new apple in after son confiscated the last one at the park today). I snack throughout the day when I'm working. As a teacher, this means snacking at planning, eating my lunch, and snacking right after the students leave and I'm working in my class. "I'm always on the road all day" I totally get this one. My husband drives a semi and is often waiting in line for hours for his load. He needs snacks that can easily be eaten in the vehicle while he is sitting in line. I pack a portion of nuts for him, an apple, and something small like a fig bar. Other small options that you can always have on hand in a purse, in a pocket, or in your car: one portion of lower fat granola, some dry cereal (I'm pretty much an 80 year old with my eating habits so bran flakes is my go to), or a small piece of fruit (cutie, apple). For those with access to a refrigerator, low fat string cheese is a great option.

2) If you are tempted by sweets, HAVE A BETTER SWEET AVAILABLE!- I have already talked about apples, but sometimes that just doesn't do the trick. When I first got diagnosed, sweets was such a struggle. I love sugar! Gilmore Girls was one of my favorite shows growing up, and I aimed to eat like a Gilmore Girl. There are always sweets in the teachers' lounge...ALWAYS...and I felt like I was always depriving myself. So, I started keeping two jelly beans in my purse. Yep, just two. When I was trying to avoid cake, donuts, and every other sweet known to man in the teachers' lounge, I would just suck on my two jelly beans to enjoy them slowly. I took care of my sugar craving and saved myself a lot of calories and sugar. If you don't have GERD, you can do the same thing with a mint. If you do have GERD, avoid mints because they are a trigger.

3) 🎵Have a little help from my friends...🎵- Yep, that would be a Wonder Years reference, another part of my childhood. Despite all attempts, sometimes it just stinks. Have some kind of accountability person that you can talk to, even if it is just shooting them a text saying that there are donuts at work today for the third time this week and you really want one and sometimes it just stinks because life would be easier if all you saw was carrots and broccoli and everyone ate like you and.....okay, so I may be drawing from experience from this one. I normally text my husband, and his usual response is, "You've got this". Those three little words set me up for complete success and help me to walk away with a little more confidence. It's also cool to have friends that totally understand that you might eat a little different and support you in it, like when they are all ordering burgers and fries and you are sitting there with your English muffin with no butter or jam (yep, that happened recently. Shout out to my amazing friends for no judgement and plenty of laughs that night!)

4) It's okay to say no!- I feel like some of us need to read that daily. I was raised with amazing Cajun manners. You always show respect. Part of this had me feeling guilty for turning people down with food. "You wouldn't want to hurt their feelings" was the little voice I heard every time. The truth is, it's okay to say no! It's healthy to say no sometimes. Like I said before, your family and friends love you and want to support you. Sometimes we are the ones making ourselves feel badly. We go over to eat at my in laws house after church on Sundays. Nine times out of ten, I stop at a store and pick up some chicken breast tenderloins to cook for myself to go along with something else for lunch. I know that my GERD diet is different than what most people eat so it's just easier for me. This week my mother in law had steamed some broccoli so I just paired it with my chicken for lunch (followed by fat free Cool Whip in a sugar cone which I highly recommend for dessert! Yum!). When I first started, I felt so guilty about not eating what my in laws had cooked. I even considered eating something that I knew would give me a reaction because I didn't want anyone to feel badly. No one had made a comment or tried to make me feel badly. I had to get past my own self imposed guilt. This one was helped along by the hubby who gave me a look like I had just landed an alien aircraft when I said maybe I would just eat a little. I had to teach myself that it is okay to saw no.

You've got this. Roadblocks happen, but detours always help. To quote a song we use to sing in kids church that has been constantly in my head while typing this, "Hey, what do you say? Move that mountain out of my way!"

And to those waiting on my Cajun food post...keep watching because I'm working on some recipes this week. The one I am most excited to try to recreate isn't Cajun, but it was a huge part of my childhood. For those from BBAG, I'm going to attempt a healthier version of Mrs. Betty's apple coffeecake!


                                 My amazing little guy decided to do sit ups with me today.